I hope to be a help on here to someone as much as I need help from someone. It is amazing what just a few words of encouragement can do for someone.I am a christian and belief God takes care of us but we often stray from his path and thats when I think he sends people in our lives to help us get back to where we need to be.My situation is complicated and I don't know too much about this to just throw my whole thing out there. I have had lots of learning experiences and if I can help someone then I have done something of use.I ask that for those out there that do pray my situation is very bad and if you would just whisper for God to give me guidance and the direction to bring me out of this valley.I am ready for the mountain top.Thank You very much

 in response to single mom 0501...   I would first like to tell you to stop for one second and take a deep breath.Start with one problem.The husband may be the main source and this is just by going with what you wrote, and my daughter has been down that road.People we have in out lives also affect our lives. I am saying a prayer for you right now and I also am in bad position so this won't be greatest advise but maybe i can help by listening and trying to understand. My ex husband was sent to jail and i along with him. I was very young at that time and he was a very abusive man mostly mentally but it all hurts and damages us the same. If you don't mind me asking dear why are you lookin at facing charges?I have a feeling that right now you just feel like your drowning and it's all crashing round you right now. Stop ask God to free your mind from all the thoughts.Then just ask for his guidance no this will not make things go away but it might help you breath for just a minute.